Today is of significance to me as it was a year ago that I last held the hand of my dear beloved mother before she passed. I have experienced many deaths over my life time and after the grieving I learned so much about the after life and soul’s departing. You must have enough self love to allow your self to grieve and I won’t sugar coat it, it hurts a lot. Some times it feels like you can’t breathe or your heart has been crushed. You must go through it to see the greatness on the other side. As I held the hand of my father who fought for 10 days and finally let go, I read the book LIFE AFTER DEATH by Deepak. It helped a lot. You learn that your loved ones have most assuredly passed onto another dimension filled with light and love and there is no more suffering. Today I am witnessing the departure of my beautiful cousin and I am holding onto the knowing that her soul will be free to fly.